Experientially distinguish between Feelings and Emotions.
Experientially calibrate your Feelings Detector (one of your 13 PM Tools...) to detect the intensity of your Conscious Feelings between zero and one-hundred percent intensity.
Ideally, you would have also Stellated each of your four Feelings Archetypes so that your inner feelings resources are fully available to you for use during your Emotional Healing Processes.
This sections has been provided to give you a basic idea of the precise kinds of preparations required to prepare yourself for a formidable next-culture adulthood initiatory process such as Eye Of The Needle. We are not kidding...
AUTHENTIC ADULTHOOD INITIATORY PROCESSES
Eye Of The Needle is truly a StartOver process.
During Eye Of The Needle, you navigate back to the point in your life when you (especially males...) must choose between entering the Patriarchy, or death (death in this case meaning: being excluded, being unrecognized, being abandoned, although it is documented that many babies suddenly die for no apparent reason, a condition known as Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS)).
What you are offered during Eye Of The Needle is a new opportunity to choose.
You are given an option to choose from that was not available to you at the time of your previous choice.
You are given the option to choose something other than Patriarchy or death.
WARNING: THE NECESSITY OF ACTUAL PREPARATIONS
Eye Of The Needle is an experiential process delivered by a Trainer in a Held and Navigated Transformational Space that offers the possibility to a prepared individual of escaping the Patriarchy.
Modern cultures around the world are Patriarchal. They are competitive, I win-you lose survival gameworlds - 'finite games' (as defined by James P. Carse in his recommended book Finite and Infinite Games) - which implement hierarchical power structures and value material possessions.
The future of humanity is emerging as Archearchal cultures, which are the human cultures that naturally emerge after Matriarchy and Patriarchy have run their course.
Archearchy is an adulthood culture, centered around an economy of Authentic Adulthood Initiatory Processes. What this means is that beginning towards Archearchy starts by escaping from the 8 Prisons.
The 8 Prisons are:
Your mother's belly.
Your father's control.
Your parents' household.
The school system.
Your birth nation culture.
Your birth religion culture.
The Linear Life Plan.
Escaping these prisons is a formidable challenge, well undertaken on the Path of entering Adulthood. We highly recommend not trying this alone. As with mountain climbing, your chances of success multiply tremendously by engaging the processes with a Team of dedicated friends. So many Teams are possible and available...
As you can see, Escaping The Patriarchy is rather far along in the path towards Authentic Adulthood. You have plenty to do before even thinking of trying Eye Of The Needle. These are several years worth of preparations.
Nobody can do these preparations for you.
On the other hand, nobody can stop you from doing these preparations.